Don’t rush to take back what you said just because someone got upset.…

Don’t rush to take back what you said just because someone got upset. First, consider what you’re being accused of. Did you insult them? Did you lie to them? Or were they simply counting on you to say yes?
Apologize for being rude. Don’t brush off a promise you’ve made. But if your conscience is clear, stand by your “no.” Other people’s hurt feelings need time to pass, too.